Lately, Medium has a few good articles that make me thinking and pondering a few minutes. And this article is highly recommended to read and to ponder.

Becoming Who You Are: Why Don’t Most People Reach Their Potential?

There are two states of being: surviving and thriving. To survive is to limit downside, to eliminate the risk of ruin — it means fulfilling our basic need for food and shelter and companionship. Thriving is different: It’s an attempt to transcend a state of existence not out of fear but out of desire and yearning.

A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be.

There are many people who are integrated but not differentiated, and their problem is mostly that they haven’t really done the work to expose themselves to the complexities surrounding them. They have been sucked into the ideologies of their family, or culture, or political affiliation, and they are seemingly happy to exist there. To them, it’s easy to ignore the excess noise in the modern world because they simply ignore it by default. But deep down, there is still emotional conflict because they know that they aren’t really living a life that’s true who they are and what they could be according to what their own body has experienced living in the world.

Then, there are people who are differentiated but not integrated. These people have exposed themselves to the different corners of the world, picked out the values that represent their individuality, but they have a hard time making it all cohere. The narrative structure that holds their life together is weak and the meaning of it all, fragile. Here, the conflict is less that they aren’t living a life that’s true to what they know deep down, but more so, it’s that they can’t act on what they know in their daily life. 

Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat.

Sun Tzu, The Art of War

Tactic is short-term. Strategy is long-term. Both are defined how to achieve goals and objectives. In order to achieve dreams, both tactic and strategy must be defined – they are compliment to each other. Strategy is having a vision to build a long winding road. Tactic is the steps and process of building that road.

Có nhà năm nào cũng phải lo và chăm cỏ. Mùa hè năm nay rất nóng và khô, gần 2 tháng không có 1 giọt mưa. Cỏ trồng lại năm rồi chết gần hết và đầu tháng 10 rồi phải trồng lại. Mùa xuân và mùa thu cỏ đẹp nhất vì thời tiết mát và cỏ sống lại hoặc được trồng lại. Từ ngày tôi mua nhà, đất chưa có topsoil. Mấy năm nay tôi phải bỏ sung topsoil để cỏ không chết khi mùa hè nóng. Bây giờ thấy có chút kết quả, mong là mùa hè năm sau cỏ không bị chết nhiều phải trồng lại.

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