There are many people who are integrated but not differentiated, and their problem is mostly that they haven\u2019t really done the work to expose themselves to the complexities surrounding them. They have been sucked into the ideologies of their family, or culture, or political affiliation, and they are seemingly happy to exist there. To them, it\u2019s easy to ignore the excess noise in the modern world because they simply ignore it by default. But deep down, there is still emotional conflict because they know that they aren\u2019t really living a life that\u2019s true who they are and what they could be according to what their own body has experienced living in the world.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Then, there are people who are differentiated but not integrated. These people have exposed themselves to the different corners of the world, picked out the values that represent their individuality, but they have a hard time making it all cohere. The narrative structure that holds their life together is weak and the meaning of it all, fragile. Here, the conflict is less that they aren\u2019t living a life that\u2019s true to what they know deep down, but more so, it\u2019s that they can\u2019t act on what they know in their daily life.\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Lately, Medium has a few good articles that make me thinking and pondering a few minutes. And this article is highly recommended to read and to ponder. Becoming Who You Are: Why Don’t Most People Reach Their Potential? There are two states of being: surviving and thriving. To survive is to limit downside, to eliminate […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[366,309,298,367],"class_list":["post-10540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-me","tag-entrepreneurship","tag-me","tag-self-help","tag-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10540"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10540\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10541,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10540\/revisions\/10541"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tuannguyen.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}